An apology to every Indian I ever asked for an Indian Restaurant

Ever since I came back from Bangalore, I have been on endless quest for a good Indian restaurant.

Over the years, I would ask my Indian friends: What’s a good Indian restaurant?

And they’d look at me funny, as if I had asked the most absurd question on the face of the Earth.

And I had been.

Because, asking for the best Indian restaurant is like asking for the Best European restaurant? Turns out that there are restaurants out there that are – yes – European restaurants. And as a European that makes about as much sense as an American restaurant does …

The best depends on what you want to eat, and more particularly what dish you want to eat and what atmosphere you want etc.

And for years, I had this fantasy that I would just walk into restaurant Foo and finally the food across all dishes would be awesome.

And today, I finally grew up. Turns out that my favorite Kabab place has terrible curries. And my favorite Curry place has terrible Kabab’s. And then neither have them have good Chicken 65, I have to go a third place – but be careful their Kabobs and Curry’s aren’t that great – so you have to be very careful with what you pick.

I’m thinking there are five levels of learning a cuisine:

  1. Good vs Bad – You’d be amazed at how few of us ever get out of that space. Most of my friends who eat Greek food in the bay area are trapped here…
  2. Recognizing gross differences (veg vs non-veg, curry vs kabab) heck – even recognizing that there are differences and different restaurants have different things they are good at is a big first step.
  3. Realizing that there are particular regional cuisines
  4. Picking a restaurant because it has a good dish.
  5. Never eating out because the food is terrible and only eating at home or at a friend’s house…

Right now, I’ve definitely graduated into level 2.

 

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